One of my friends asked me "How should a SNUBBED subordinate behave when the people in position tries to discredit him to cover their shortcomings and help his/her Lickspittle"
MY ANSWER IS :
It is a daunting reality that largely important decisions made by the so called intelligent, responsible people with the best information and intentions they could only manage or understand results in hopelessly flawed decisions.
It is acknowledged by cognoscenti, that based on the way the brain works, we can’t rely on decision makers to spot and safeguard against their own errors in judgment.
If very influential & biased persons talks ill about you who is well educated/good mannered/excellent job track record/ successful/ famaus family background etc., treats you bad, and spreads lies about you; just remember that there is something wrong with that person, he/she envies you and your capabilities and fear that you may be a threat to him/her and his/her cronies positions. It confirms that you have 'ARRIVED'...Enjoy!
The critic might be hoping to goad you into a fight, or at least to provoke your anger then show you unworthy in front of the society or he/she may be expecting you to cave in, accept his critique, lose confidence, slink off, and defeated.
Just keep calm, nobody is irreplaceable and indispensable, time will change, things will change, positions will change, just enjoy life.
If your reason is just and genuine, be prepared to fight alone. In case you loose due to power of money and unchallenged dictatorial authority, be prepared to grow like a seed, back to fight again - never compromise your ideals.
STAY HOME; STAY SAFE.
MVR Menon
Strategy Consultant and Social Worker.
Mob: 9445333388
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